
... I never had a chance. I was - and this is the only word that fits - smitten. I still am.
She was smart and quick-witted, although it would take me 3 years to recognize that she was, in fact, much smarter than me, and then another 2 years to forgive her for that. She was also good-looking and unabashedly sexy.
And, we fell madly, irredeemably, unflinchingly in love.

Complementing the unlikely story of how Julie and I met, fell in love, and - 9 years, 2 husbands, 1 wife, and 2 careers later - got together to spend an outrageously wonderful 20 years together before her death, a video, set to the poignant "In My Secret Life" by Leonard Cohen and Sharon Robinson, is now available that evokes the role Julie, who died 10 years ago, continues to play in my life.
The written account of the story (think When Harry Met Sally meets Waiting For Godot) starts, appropriately, at This Is How A Love Story Began
The video can be found at And We’re Still Making Love In My Secret Life - A Video For Julie
Nice job Heck! Thanks,
Thanks Allan,
Again a wonderful compliation! I’d never seen the photo of him in the chair with his eyes shut.
Thanks so much for doing this.
Bev
For info on that shot, see post – Photo By Annie Leibovitz
really enjoyed the video. it was a lot of work. thanks so much. i posted on my facebook page.
That was wonderful! Thank you!
(And what a perfect choice of music.)
Allan,
Thanks for that link to the photo and the accompaning story. I’m always looking for more info!
Bev
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Wonderful, Dr. H – thank you!
You always manage to find photos that I’ve never seen before – like the buckskin Boys…
Dear Allan ~
Tears accompanied me throughout watching this distinctly insightful and sensitive video tribute to Leonard’s 76.
The dynamic, energy, and meaning of the music and lyrics perfectly and seamlessly matched the photos you chose.
I might need to watch one after the other, but the feeling I had as I watched this was that it is my favourite of all of your beautiful tributes to Leonard. It brims with respect and deep feeling. The way you covered various periods and aspects of Leonard’s life felt natural and effortless. So well done, Allan. So well done. Thank you.
Love,
Lizzy
Thank you for resisting the tyranny of the decimal.
~ Lizzy
Quite nice…Thank You.
Thank you, I love it !!!!
Beautiful video! Thanks so much for all your work. It is wonderful that you can express what so many of us feel…but are unable to express. Do you know if he ever visits your site?
Namaste, Nina currently in Texas
Thank you, thank you for doing this for Leonard’s birthday, HofaG! As others above have expressed, you are able to bring together so much material that most of us would never find. I posted the video on my Facebook page too, Vicki.
And thank you Bob, for the musical accompaniment. Perfect!
I think Leonard does visit your site. Am I right?
Re Leonard Cohen visiting my site, I wish I could provide a definitive answer, but the best I can offer is that he does know the site by name and he has at least seen a number of specific posts others have pointed out to him.
Beyond that, I know nothing about how frequently, if ever, he browses 1HeckOfAGuy.com (and, to be fair, he doesn’t know how often I listen to his songs) – although I have chosen to believe the real reason Leonard refuses visitors and leaves the venues immediately after a concert is completed is that he is eager to get online to check out the latest goings-on at Heck Of A Guy.
Beautiful.